Learning is a never-ending process, and this is especially true in the professional world. As a professional Domme, it is essential to stay up-to-date with the latest trends and developments in the industry. One of the best ways to do this is by attending workshops and social events. These events offer a unique opportunity to expand your knowledge and skills while also networking with other kinksters.
Two Days Workshops by Kristina Marlen
I had the privilege to attend Kristina Marlen’s Shibari workshop where she taught us about tantra bondage and bodywork. She flew from Germany to Asia to conduct workshops for us kinksters. It is focused on a specific topic or skill, diving deep dive into the subject matter. The feeling of human connection, breath and touch. As a Domme, it is important to also know how it feels like to be on the receiving end. This way I am able to recreate the experience and a safer space for you.
There was a food play workshop too. I recalled half of the class attendees left during this segment after Kristina Marlen smash banana all over on the demo girl’s face. I brought along My personal submissive, Cyrus, as My pairing partner. During the activity time, I had fun spitting out banana and chocolate to his mouth. The humiliation of having My leftover or rather, chewed food. This was during pre-covid back in January 2018.
By attending the two full days workshops, I managed to gain new insights and techniques that I am able to apply to both My lifestyle and Professional Domination. It was organised by a currently defunct kink group.
For the past years, I had also given back to the community by co-leading an active non-profit education kink group in Singapore where I moderate members and also host or teach workshops, especially for the novices who are new to the world of BDSM.
Femdom Black Party
Social events or parties, on the other hand, offer a more relaxed and casual atmosphere. It also depends on whether it is a high or low protocol. It also helps to boost your confidence and help you to stay motivated. Non-private pick-up play is definitely different from a one-to-one scenes. At times, submissives are shy or they can even have performance anxiety. It is completely normal. This is one of the avenue to overcome such fear.
Instead of staying on for the general kink party, I went off to another event organiser – Black Party where only Female Dominants are allowed to lead. For submissives, you must be able to impress the Dommes so they will favour and play with you throughout the night. For the unworthy ones, goodbye! Ideally, as a submissive, I highly encourage you to come with your Domme so you won’t feel left out.
It was a prison theme titled ‘Crime City’. I wonder what crime have you committed to receive a punishment… All of us have to dress up accordingly. Hope you loved what I wore too! The Dommes were the officers and submissives are prisoners. There are female attendees too but the hierachy will always be Female Dominants -> Female submissives -> Male submissives. Which one do you belong to?
This sums up My kink weekend in Singapore. The scene grew exponentially over the years and I hope it will continue to thrive especially when the topic about sexualilty and BDSM is becoming more mainstream due to the media exposure. Neverthless, we are still a conservative country and privacy is still utmost important. The majority of the events will require you to be vetted to attend.
I can’t wait for My next adventure in My hometown!