Thank you plaything K for reminiscing about our times in Melbourne and picking up where W/we left off in Perth.
In the heart of Perth’s unhurried grace, I find Myself reflecting on how swiftly time dances by. This month marks a remarkable milestone – My 6th year anniversary living as lifestyle Domme publicly. I learned more than I expected after a decade privately prior to this. It’s a journey that has been deeply enriching and transformative, marked by growth, connection and an unwavering dedication to understanding the complexities of intimacy.
Living as a Lifestyle Domme Publicly
The journey of FemDom has been nothing short of extraordinary. It’s a path that not only transformed My life but also profoundly impacted the lives of those I’ve had the privilege to connect with. Every step along this journey has been a dance of understanding, compassion, and discovery. It’s been a journey of unraveling taboos, embracing vulnerabilities, and guiding individuals toward a deeper understanding of themselves and their D/s connections with Me.
I’m deeply grateful for those who embarked on this journey with Me from the very beginning. Their trust in My approach and commitment to personal growth has been a driving force. I also owe a debt of gratitude to My supportive personal slave, Cyrus/Silent, who stood by My side, believed in My vision, and offered unwavering encouragement even before I chose to fully embark on being a Professional Dominatrix full-time.
Reflecting on the past six years of My journey, I’m struck by the incredible evolution that has unfolded. It’s astonishing to think that I never imagined Myself in this role, let alone thriving in it for half a decade. Beyond the confines of My expectations, this journey has extended its tendrils across borders, allowing Me the privilege of international travel, where I’ve met admirers from diverse cultures and forged connections that transcend boundaries.
Along the way, I’ve had the humbling chance to engage with other powerful and influential Women through enlightening social events, their stories serving as both inspiration and motivation. Equally, I’ve embraced the opportunity to expand My own horizons through BDSM workshops and rope jams, a treasure trove of learning new skills and insights that have only further empowered Me as I continue to navigate this unique and fulfilling path.
Forging a trail previously uncharted by any Singaporean Dominatrix, I embarked on a journey that etched My name in history. As the first to proudly represent My nation at significant Femdom and BDSM events such as in London, Athens, Berlin and Köln, I found Myself paving the way for other Dommes and kinksters to follow. I also had the privilege to teach the kink community in Singapore, Hong Kong and beyond.
Yet, this journey wasn’t without its challenges. Balancing vanilla and life in a field as intimate as this demanded careful consideration. As I delved into the world of Professional Dominatrix, I recognised the need to make sacrifices. It was a realisation that while we often hear that we can have it all, there are times when a choice must be made.
In My case, I chose to pour My energy into My Femdom passion. This meant limiting My social interactions in My personal vanilla life and channeling My focus into building meaningful connections with fellow kinksters. It was a decision that wasn’t easy, but it was one that felt right for My journey.
Spirituality & Kink
I felt a profound sense of liberation washing over Me, as if the weight of the world had lifted, following the misogyny law aftermath of the divorce that had left Me grappling with the erosion of My spiritual faith that I was raised with since birth. Spending all My years as a minor typically known as ‘Sunday school’ week after week without fail, I’ve always been competing to be the top of My class but it’s always been looked down upon because I am a Female.
I can never lead a prayer service unless no males are present. I knew as a child that the faith has flaws, the biased polygamy, and it is only when you evolve into a Woman, the tradition of genital mutilation affects you greatly with the inability to feel pleasure. It doesn’t help that the South East Asian culture deviates away from the original teachings. Being looked down upon for fostering and adopting a certain pet, which is in fact a part of the divine creation.
Nevertheless, no human society is immune to imperfections and sin. Just as Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis) faced divine judgment for their sins, individuals and societies today may face challenges and consequences when they deviate from values that promote compassion, justice, and respect for others.
In BDSM, consent plays a central role – An environment of understanding, empathy, and respect for individuals’ boundaries and desires. This is to ensure that all parties involved are comfortable and fully aware of the kink activities taking place. This aligns with the broader principle of respecting personal autonomy and promoting safe, consensual interactions in any context. Deviating from the principles of consent and ethical behaviour can lead to harm, emotional distress, and destroy relationships.
Ultimately, it serves as a reminder that spiritual faith is a journey that involves acknowledging imperfections, seeking growth, and striving for a deeper connection with the divine. In addition, the core philosophy of mindfulness and meditation emphasises the practice of being fully present, aware in each moment and having a deep understanding of the interconnectedness of all things.
Reflection in Perth
In a world that races forward, a pause can be a revelation. I’ve often marveled at how cities, despite their bustling exteriors, can hold within them an oasis of tranquility. As I compare the vibrant tapestry of Singapore to the soothing canvas of Perth, a stark contrast emerges. While both are cities with their own unique energy, it’s the pace that sets them worlds apart. Singapore, a city that never sleeps, races towards the future, fueled by ambition and efficiency. In contrast, Perth moves to a more measured beat, embracing the art of a slow-paced lifestyle. Now I know why tons of Singaporeans moved here.
Perth, with its serene pace, welcomed Me once again, unveiling a tapestry of warmth and genuine camaraderie that left Me in awe. The admirers and kink friends I encountered didn’t just open their doors, but their hearts as well. Their warmth wasn’t just hospitality; it was an embodiment of a lifestyle that values the time spent with others. Their unmatched mannerisms, their unhurried conversations, and the genuine interest they took in every interaction were a lesson in the very essence of human connection that individuals from other cities around the world could truly benefit from. I am blessed by the gifts I received from slave M such as fruits, chocolates, and an insightful piece for Me to read.
So, as I return from this journey, I carry with Me more than just memories of breathtaking landscapes and stunning sunsets. I carry a newfound appreciation for the art of living at a pace that nourishes the soul and reconnects with My inner child, past, present, and future self. As the world hurtles forward, the lesson that Perth imparts is a reminder that growth needn’t come at the cost of grace.
Through all My solo travels, I’ve discovered the beauty of self-discovery, embracing the challenges and triumphs that come with the territory. The road has been dotted with ups and downs, each twist and turn shaping My expertise and perspective as a Professional Dominatrix.
I was truly blessed by My admirers for My past play space in Singapore. While that chapter was precious, the sands of time indicated that it was time to transition. It became My calling to embark on a journey of travelling once again, reuniting with admirers as most of the travel restrictions, brought about by the pandemic, eased. It was as though the universe was nudging Me to embrace new horizons and renewed connections.
Western Australia, your heartwarming hospitality has been an inspiration. The lessons I’ve learned from this city are etched in My being, and I carry them forward as I embrace the challenges and triumphs of the next chapter. As the sun sets on Perth, it rises on a new dawn of opportunity and learning, and I invite you all to join Me in this exciting journey ahead.
East Australia admirers, I can’t wait to reconnect with you again while I pour My hearts and knowledge out to the BDSM community during the annual OZ Kink Fest, Melbourne in October.
