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I miss the days when I will be there at least twice a year to meet the kink community, Domme comrades and of course, My beloved playthings. This is the first time after a long time since December 2019. I am so glad to see familiar faces and connect with the kink community again, especially Kinky Hong Kong (KHK). […]

Learning is a never-ending process. As a professional Domme, it is essential to stay up-to-date in the industry. One of the best ways to do this is by attending workshops and social events. These events offer a unique opportunity to expand your knowledge and skills while also networking with other kinksters. I had the privilege to attend Kristina Marlen’s Shibari workshop where […]

Earlier in My life, I was introduced to the world of arts and was encouraged to pursue it despite growing up in a city where studying STEM and joining the corporate rat race is the priority. Since then, I have believed that art is an expression of oneself. This also allowed Me to understand My playthings better whenever I could admire their purchased art collections in their homes. […]

Wishing everyone a blessed Christmas and new year! If this year doesn’t work well for you, I hope things will get better for you. Another year will pass and so will the school holidays. As much as people assume that Pro Dommes only fill up their time with sessions, there are other things We do that are related to or complement it. Nevertheless, do I consider this month to be self-care […]

Before the year ends, I would like to share with My admirers something close to My heart. Every time I had to explain to a vanilla person what I do for a living, do I really consider Domination as a job? Most people would assume that a Dominatrix gets paid to cane men. To be honest, […]

Grüezi! I landed in Flughafen Zürich during My early autumn Europe tour and I am so excited to share with you My adventures. A former Singaporean politician used to compare Singapore and Switzerland. To reach the Swiss Standard of Living […]

Last month, I took a subs-funded solo break nearby in Thailand and also joined My kitties for a 24/7 D/s live-in retreat in Phuket. It’s been an amazing journey exploring as She is new to the BDSM realm. She is still a virgin and I am glad She gave Me permission to take hers away by using My strap-on. I am also grateful to those who allow Me to be their first Mistress to serve. I know it can be scary for first-timers but with the right guidance, it is just one step ahead to exploring your sexuality. […]

Mini figurines and Lego are for adults too, and it’s exciting to bring a fantasy into reality. This set Me to thinking – why not build a kinky pet sanctuary? My dream is to create an indoor torture dungeon with an outdoor area for relaxation (I’m a huge fan of lofts!). Not forgetting, of course, a stable where all My pets will be kept […]

After two years of GFB hiatus due to the pandemic, it’s finally back in 2022! I am glad that this is not My first time in Berlin. If you’re not coming to German Fetish Ball Week, this can also apply as tips if you wish to come to Berlin to party, especially at Kit Kat Club or other Fetish theme events. […]

It was such a pleasure to be invited to attend this amazing event hosted by Mistress Alexandra Balance. Most importantly, the subs who made My trip a smooth one or supported Me in any way. Thank you and I appreciate that for making Me smile. This is also the time I’ve discovered who actually cherishes the Lady that they admire and who doesn’t. […]

As Dommes, We’re constantly busy. How We choose to spend our 24 hours a day is up to Us. This also means you’re not entitled to Our time, energy and effort unless proven worthy. Men will try to find ways to message Us everywhere except Our preferred way for the first point of contact. Why? First impressions count. […]

For the first time, all My sessions are sissies! I’m impressed by the amount of effort you darlings put in collecting lingerie and cute outfits for crossdressing. There are so many things that I could go on and on about crossdressing. wrong. Most importantly, you feel happy and relieved that you have a safe space and avenue to be accepted to be who you truly are or indulge in your secret hobby. […]

Ich hatte das privileg, im frühwinter zu besuchen RubberOnion und TC. Baden-Württemberg ist wunderbar. Danke und bis bald! I had the privilege to visit RubberOnion and TC (Her partner) in Baden-Württemberg in early winter 2021. We connected via FetLife a few years back and we finally met after so long! It was a minimum 8 hours trip back and forth from My nearest Hauptbahnhof in Deutschland. Woke up early en route to Zürich and everywhere in Schweiz is picturesque! The countryside is blanketed in snow, and the quaint villages are straight out of a storybook. Yes, from my short video clip on Twitter, it was 2°C! […]

She breezed into the room, business-like, Her mules making no sound on the cold marble room. She paused to regard the object suspended in the middle of the room like a jaguar considering whether its prey was worth descending from its perch. She rolled the coloured egg in Her hand as She stood, the other hand on Her hip. Bringing the egg up to Her full lips, She kissed it, planting Her mark on the eggshell. […]

Earlier on, I pass by an adult sex toys store and I accidentally went on a shopping spree. I’m so excited to share with you what I’ve purchased! Online shopping isn’t My thing unless I’ve no choice. Thank you L for assisting Me & answering My endless questions for almost 2 hours in the store. […]

It’s the last quarter of 2020 and we’re still in the middle of a pandemic. Places are reopening. Slowly but surely. Do you remember the mess that happened earlier this year? No doubt, I had a hard time while travelling the world for kink during the first quarter of the year (Yes, I did actually manage a quick trip to Australia). I’m sure people these days are on endless conference calls while wearing undergarments. I had the weekend planned over in Melbourne in advance with workshops and events. […]

I had good experiences on this trip special thanks to My newest playthings added to My stable. However, the unexpected happened. Traded My identification card at the reception to access the tower and here I am before the platonic plates decided to shift. I wore heels but took them off and scrambled down barefooted over 20 storeys high. […]

It was my second time in Hong Kong. The first time was several years ago and I was on vacation with my sister and her boyfriend. We did a lot of sightseeing and ate a lot of Chinese food. We also met a former friend who took us around. Of course, since my sister came along we did a lot of shopping. […]

Dear Diary, March just left us but it was an eye-opening experience to travel for what I love. Outbound from Singapore to major cities. Am I a local Hong Kongese in Hong Kong? Vietnamese student in Melbourne? Filipina traveller in Sydney? I know I do not have a common face or obvious Singlish but it’s intruiging everywhere I go people think I’m just not Singaporean even in Jakarta. […]

“Get down on your knees,” said Mistress Caittrin in Her soft but firm voice. As Her slave quickly got down on his knees. This was Evan’s first time meeting his new Mistress and he was eager to make her proud. However, he did not expect it took a devilish turn the moment he walked into Her lair. The lair was a nice whitewashed room with many tools that made him erect really quick and tools that no one knows what they are meant for. […]

“Are YOU sure you want to do THIS?” Caittrin asked, holding my hands firmly with a look so deep and serious. “you don’t have to take this step, we could always have a normal Hen’s Night. It’s not too late. you know that, RIGHT?” Giggling from the thrill, “Yes… Heee Mistress,” I said in jest. Which resulted in a harsh slap to my face and seeing Caittrin still dead serious […]