Caittrin's Universe

Professional Lifestyle Dominatrix | Femdom Singapore

Kitty Retreat in Phuket

Last month, I took a subs-funded solo break nearby in Thailand and also joined My kitties for a 24/7 D/s live-in retreat in Phuket. It’s been an amazing journey exploring as She is new to the BDSM realm. She is still a virgin and I am glad She gave Me permission to take hers away by using My strap-on. I am also grateful to those who allow Me to be their first Mistress to serve. I know it can be scary for first-timers but with the right guidance, it is just one step ahead to exploring your sexuality. […]

Lego Gets Kinky: Building A BDSM Sanctuary

Mini figurines and Lego are for adults too, and it’s exciting to bring a fantasy into reality. This set Me to thinking – why not build a kinky pet sanctuary? My dream is to create an indoor torture dungeon with an outdoor area for relaxation (I’m a huge fan of lofts!). Not forgetting, of course, a stable where all My pets will be kept […]

German Fetish Ball Week Survival Guide

After two years of GFB hiatus due to the pandemic, it’s finally back in 2022! I am glad that this is not My first time in Berlin. If you’re not coming to German Fetish Ball Week, this can also apply as tips if you wish to come to Berlin to party, especially at Kit Kat Club or other Fetish theme events. […]

Athens FemDom Gala 2022 & Musing

It was such a pleasure to be invited to attend this amazing event hosted by Mistress Alexandra Balance. Most importantly, the subs who made My trip a smooth one or supported Me in any way. Thank you and I appreciate that for making Me smile. This is also the time I’ve discovered who actually cherishes the Lady that they admire and who doesn’t. […]

Defining FemDom

Woman who physically or psychologically dominates Her partner in a sadomasochistic encounter.” – Merriam Webster. However, many non-binary, gender-queer people or woman-aligned folks identify as Dominatrices as well. FemDom refers to Female Domination. Is there a difference between Professional & Lifestyle Dominatrix? […]

A Domme’s Energy, Time & Effort

As Dommes, We’re constantly busy. How We choose to spend our 24 hours a day is up to Us. This also means you’re not entitled to Our time, energy and effort unless proven worthy. Men will try to find ways to message Us everywhere except Our preferred way for the first point of contact. Why? First impressions count. […]

Sissy and Food Escapade to Kuala Lumpur

For the first time, all My sessions are sissies! I’m impressed by the amount of effort you darlings put in collecting lingerie and cute outfits for crossdressing. There are so many things that I could go on and on about crossdressing. wrong. Most importantly, you feel happy and relieved that you have a safe space and avenue to be accepted to be who you truly are or indulge in your secret hobby. […]

Fetish Clothes, BDSM Toys and Equipment

I remembered the first tribute I received from a slave before I turn full-fledged professional Dominatrix was to invest in toys. Afterwards, it became a habit where I reinvest back to the BDSM scene and before I knew it, My collection grew exponentially. I generally do not showcase all of My toys because I will need plenty of space which I do not have. Also, I’m always on the go so I bring those that I will use often. The rest will be hidden in temperature-controlled storage (Just like My latex & leather pieces). After a while, you’ll realise what toys collect dust and what toys doesn’t. Not all toys are made equal mileage. I focus on quality (Eg. Medical grade silicone, Stainless Steel & etc) and avoid cheap factory manufactured ones because I want My slaves to have the best experience. As much as they are the one who serves Me, I value My duty of creating a safe environment for them. […]

BDSM Terminology Explained

Those who are new to the BDSM community, Fetish and Femdom scene may be unfamiliar with the terminology used. Below is a list for those interested in expanding their knowledge of common terms used. Bondage: A restraining activity that involves ropes. Other words that surround it are ‘Shibari’ means ‘tie’ & ‘Kinbaku’ means ‘tight-binding’ in Japanese. Popular for its art form. Requires hours and years of practice to master floor works or suspension […]

Winter in Baden-Württemberg, Deutschland

Ich hatte das privileg, im frühwinter zu besuchen RubberOnion und TC. Baden-Württemberg ist wunderbar. Danke und bis bald! I had the privilege to visit RubberOnion and TC (Her partner) in Baden-Württemberg in early winter 2021. We connected via FetLife a few years back and we finally met after so long! It was a minimum 8 hours trip back and forth from My nearest Hauptbahnhof in Deutschland. Woke up early en route to Zürich and everywhere in Schweiz is picturesque! The countryside is blanketed in snow, and the quaint villages are straight out of a storybook. Yes, from my short video clip on Twitter, it was 2°C! […]