As Dommes, We’re constantly busy. How We choose to spend our 24 hours a day is up to Us. This also means you’re not entitled to Our time, energy and effort unless proven worthy. If We take time off to respond to you, be grateful that We notice you.
Men will try to find ways to message Us everywhere except Our preferred way for the first point of contact. Why? Is it because you can’t follow instructions? Then how can We guarantee you will listen when you meet Us? First impressions count.
My social media inbox is always being spammed. Imagine if I reply to all these timewasters, I won’t have time to sleep or eat. The easiest way to prove that you’re not a timewaster is to tribute your favourite Domme for Her time, effort and energy BEFORE you connect with Her. Then it’s up to Her how She will prioritise you that fits into Her schedule.
This does not apply to just professional but also lifestyle Domme. Do you think it is cheaper to serve a Lifestyle Domme than a Professional? NO. In fact, it is more expensive. For professionals, you’re paying by the hour, but a lifestyle? Financial contribution is essential whether it’s cash or gifts. Not just because We’re ‘money-minded’ but because bills, toys, equipment, clothes or shoes that you admire Us wearing don’t pay by themselves. Wish to see a Domme who has a dungeon or play space? How is She going to run the place if you’re not contributing to the rent or mortgage? Things don’t appear by themselves.
My Domme comrade and I don’t post Our exact hosting dates and time. Why? It is your chance to connect with Us and see if you fit into Our schedule. We don’t see tons of subs in one full day or two. This is Our Life. We like to take it slow and see perhaps, once or twice a day and of course, breaks in between to recharge Ourselves.
We’re not robots and definitely not kink dispensing machined to cater to whatever you want. Our needs come first and that’s something that should be ingrained in you if you wish to indulge in the FemDom realm. It is not all about you. We’re here to guide and explore yourself safely. That’s the reason why you see a Professional because how can you make sure your inexperienced girlfriend/wife can tie you up or peg safely?
